War veteran Ryan Grieves calls for ex-servicemen and women to jump housing queue

Ryan Grieves with his girlfriend Katie Richings and their two children Archie and Taylor Ryan Grieves with his girlfriend Katie Richings and their two children Archie and Taylor

A father-of-two is calling for ex-servicemen and women to be put to the front of the housing queue after finding himself homeless three months since leaving the British Army.

Ryan Grieves, 23, has been sleeping on friends’ sofas and in his car since quitting the army where he served in the Two Rifles for six and a half years.

Mr Grieves, who grew up in Barnet, said: “I could only get home once every two months for two to three nights.

“I really missed my family and I was missing out on seeing my kids growing up so I decided to come back home to be with them.”

Six months before leaving his barracks in Northern Ireland he contacted Barnet Homes, which manages 15,000 council houses in the borough, asking them for a home for himself, his girlfriend Katie Richings, 25, and their two children Archie, three, and Taylor, eight.

The couple fall into the Band Two waiting list, which prioritises people who have made a “community contribution” – but when Mr Grieves returned home in January he still did not have the security of a roof over his head.

Miss Richings, a beauty student at Barnet College, is staying with her father, who will not let Mr Grieves stay at the house because of a family feud, and his own parents have no room because seven of their nine children are living at home.

Mr Grieves, who is due to start working as a gardener for Barnet Council, said: “I don’t have anywhere to go, all my stuff’s in storage and I’m living out of a bag.

“I’ve been fighting for the country for years – I’ve been to Afghanistan, Kosovo, Kenya, Cyprus and Belize.

“It’s really bad when you’ve been serving the country that you don’t get looked after when you leave. I think more should be done.

"I should be able to bath my kids and get them ready for bed, but I can’t do that. It’s really hard.”

Miss Richings said: “I was looking forward to having some support and building a home together. We should be living together as a family. The kids are really proud of their daddy, they tell everyone he’s a soldier, but they miss him so much.”

A Barnet Homes spokesman said: “Mr Grieves' service in the army means he is a higher priority case for us and we will seek to find him and his partner and children an appropriate property as soon as possible from the very limited number of properties available to us.

“It is highly likely that he will have to wait for some time, in common with other housing applicants of a similar level of priority, and we would ask him in the meantime to keep us informed about his housing situation or if he needs more urgent assistance.”

Comments(6)

NoToMob Member says...
9:58am Sun 17 Mar 13

I see nothing wrong with having an expectation of being given preferential treatment after serving Queen & Country .
Of course our ex service men & women
should be housed before any immigrants or professional scroungers, who have done nothing for this country except Leach off the welfare state,

OhWiseOne says...
12:48pm Sun 17 Mar 13

Yet Barnet Homes seems to be able to rehouse troublesome families quickly enough!

What about all the new build developments in Colindale and the one on the site of the old bittacy hill barracks? All the social housing been taken already?

Jodie28 says...
3:13pm Mon 18 Mar 13

Barnet homes comments are contradicting themselves? Saying that ex servicemen are priority, when the spokesman for Barnet homes is saying he will have to wait some time? Sort it out, this man has not only been away from his family for so long, but he has been away serving for his country, it's digusting, all these immigrants getting homes before people that have been bought up from day 1 in Britain can't even live happily as they are homeless, they need to re prioritise the housing list.

james smyth says...
7:38am Tue 19 Mar 13

This gentlemen by his own admission is homeless due to a family feud. For the sake of the children would it not be better all round for the family to sort out this feud and then they as a family sort out the housing issues. Yes the man has served his country however as this country has shown ,it is not very good at looking after its own.

londonboy88 says...
4:01pm Tue 19 Mar 13

This is a absolute joke if ive ever read one. This is a young man with a young family who is struggling to be housed after serving our country! Get this sorted, the council should be embarrassed! James Smyth makes a valid point, but thats neither here nor there. LOOK AFTER YOUR OWN!

Liverpoolfc4 says...
4:39pm Tue 19 Mar 13

How disgraceful. After serving for his country he is treated this way. Would be a completely different story if he was an immigrant.
Even if the family feud was sorted, why should he live with his girlfriends parents? He deserves his own home after everything he has given!
I hope they pull their fingers out and provide you and your beautiful family what you so rightly deserve!

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