Parents urged: 'Talk about sex' (From Times Series)

Parents urged: 'Talk about sex'

3:55pm Monday 7th January 2008 in

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PARENTS across Hertfordshire are being urged to talk about the often avoided subject of sex and relationships with their children to help reduce unplanned pregnancies in 2008.

Parentline Plus is calling on parents to add a chat about the birds and the bees, contraception and sexually transmitted diseases (STIs) to their list of New Year resolutions as part of its Time to Talk' campaign.

The warning comes as figures revealed that conception rates for under 18's soar in January and December during the festive party season.

The charity hopes that by discussing the sensitive and embarrassing issue of sex, young people will take extra precautions against unwanted pregnancy and STIs.

The campaign also focuses on how parents can help keep their teens safe by highlighting issues such as drugs, binge drinking and resisting peer pressure.

Sandra Hiller, area manager of Parentline Plus in Hertfordshire, said: "One of the best things that parents can resolve to do is to make sure the messages get across - the under 18 conception rates speak for themselves.

"We are very aware that this can be easier said than done.

"However, we know from the calls we receive that parents really want to take the initiative, they sometimes just need some support to do so.

"By doing this, parents can help prevent their teens from getting into risky situations, encourage them to delay their first sexual activity and reduce unintended teenage pregnancies and sexually transmitted infections (STIs)."

She added: "Parents can't be with their teenagers 24 hours a day, but ultimately want to keep their kids safe, in whatever way they can but also let them have some fun and freedom as they become young adults."

For more information visit the website parentsupport@parentlineplus.org.uk Parentline Plus tips include:

Before your teen heads for a night out, talk to them about not getting too drunk, suggesting they also drink lots of water or alternating between an alcoholic drink and water.

Talk to them about the importance of sticking with friends and not putting themselves in a vulnerable position, including getting a cab home alone.

Keep on about the importance of using an effective method of contraception to protect against unwanted pregnancies and STIs. If things don't go to plan and they do have unprotected sex, make sure they know that they can get emergency contraception free from their GP or local clinic within 72 hours.

Emergency contraception is very safe and effective but works better the sooner it is taken.

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